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Strap On Me Leatherette Desirous Harness - O/S Metallic Bronze
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The Desirous Harness from Strap-On-Me has been redesigned around one idea: shared pleasure should feel freer, smoother and more instinctive.

How to use it — and who it’s for

How to use it. Fit comes first — check your dildo fits the harness ring, adjust the straps snug, and add a little length allowance so it sits comfortably between bodies. Then go slow with plenty of lube; the receiving partner sets the pace.

Is it right for you? For any wearer-and-receiver pairing, and the strap-on-curious solo. Start with a smaller dildo and a comfy adjustable harness.

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About this material — Metal

A smooth, weighty, non-porous metal, responsive to temperature and compatible with any lube.

Care. Wash with soap and water.

Good to know. Some metal alloys and findings can contain nickel; if you have a nickel allergy, check the product details.

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Strap On Me Leatherette Desirous Harness – O/S Metallic Bronze by Strap-On-Me product image
Strap On Me Leatherette Desirous Harness – O/S Metallic Bronze
$69.99 Original price was: $69.99.$52.50Current price is: $52.50.

Strap On Me Leatherette Desirous Harness O/S Metallic Bronze

The Desirous Harness from Strap-On-Me has been redesigned around one idea: shared pleasure should feel freer, smoother and more instinctive. The look is minimalist and the build is functional, with a padded back belt that wraps the body and adjustable straps that let you fine-tune the fit. It comes in a metallic bronze finish that catches the light, and it is made to be comfortable enough that you can stop thinking about the gear and focus on each other.

Key Features

  • Bareback design: the dildo sits directly against the skin, for a more intimate, sensory connection.
  • Padded back belt: cushions the body for comfort during longer play.
  • One size, adjustable: fits sizes XS to XXL (hips roughly 88-137 cm / 34-54 in), with straps at the front and back for precise positioning.
  • Three included rings: 4.5 cm / 1.8 in, 5.5 cm / 2.2 in and 6.5 cm / 2.6 in, to match the dildo you choose.
  • Snap buttons: the rings are removable and interchangeable, so you can add or swap them in moments.
  • Wide compatibility: works with all Straponme dildos, including the Multi Orgasm Dildo.
  • Made for pegging: a good fit for pegging and for power play.
  • Cotton storage pouch included: keeps it tidy and discreet between uses.

Fit is where a harness succeeds or fails, and the Desirous gives you plenty of room to get it right. Adjustable straps at the front and back let you set the height and angle of the dildo, and they also let you move freely once you are underway. Experienced harness users often like the way adjustable straps allow small changes, and being able to nudge the fit a little at a time makes a real difference to comfort. Before you begin, try it on, set the straps so it feels secure but not tight, and check your range of movement. The size guide runs from XS to XXL (USA sizes 2-12, with hips from 88 to 137 cm / 34 to 54 in), so check your measurements first.

The three rings make this harness flexible. Choose the one that holds your dildo snugly, and use the snap buttons to remove or add rings as your preferences change. Because the dildo rests right against the skin, the wearer may feel more of the motion, which adds to the closeness for many couples. It works with the full Straponme dildo range, so you can try different shapes and sensations without changing harnesses. If you are new to pegging, a simple, adjustable design like this one is a sensible place to start, since you can change the fit until it feels natural.

Care is simple. The surface is faux leather, so wipe it down with a soft, slightly damp cloth after each use. For stubborn dirt or residue, use warm soapy water, then wipe away excess moisture and let it air dry fully. Once it is dry, tuck it into the cotton pouch that comes with it so it stays clean and out of sight. The harness is made from a blend that includes polyurethane, nitrile, iron and elastane, and it is made in China.

If you are ready to add a comfortable, adjustable harness to your collection, the Desirous Harness in Metallic Bronze is waiting at Phareros.com, packed with the discretion you expect from us.

Weight0.545 lbs
Color

MaterialMetal

FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions

What is the Desirous Harness made of?

The harness is a blend of 95% polyurethane (faux leather), 2% nitrile, 2% iron, 0.5% polyester and 0.5% elastane. It is made in China. We don't list a phthalate-free or latex-free claim for it, so check the materials above if you have sensitivities.

How do I clean and store the harness?

Wipe the whole surface with a soft, slightly damp cloth after each use. For stubborn dirt or residue, use warm soapy water, wipe off excess moisture and let it air dry fully. Once dry, store it in the included cotton pouch.

Will it fit me, and can I adjust it?

It is one size and adjustable, fitting XS to XXL (USA sizes 2-12) with hips from roughly 88 to 137 cm / 34 to 54 in. The padded back belt and adjustable straps at the front and back let you set the height and angle of the dildo, so measure your hips before ordering.

Which dildos can I use with this harness?

It is compatible with all Straponme dildos, including the Multi Orgasm Dildo. It comes with three snap-on rings (4.5 cm / 1.8 in, 5.5 cm / 2.2 in and 6.5 cm / 2.6 in) so you can choose the one that holds your dildo snugly.

Is this harness a good choice for pegging?

Yes, it is designed with pegging in mind. Its adjustable fit lets you change the fit until it feels natural, and the bareback design places the dildo directly against the skin for a more intimate connection.

Brand

Strap-On-Me

Strap-On-Me is a range covering strap ons, harness only, dongs/dildos for harnesses.

Worth knowing before you buy: this is apparel, so fit is the thing to check rather than materials. Sizing follows the brand's own chart rather than high-street sizing — go by the measurements on the individual listing. Delicate fabrics should be hand-washed, and anything wet-look, latex or vinyl should never go in a machine.

Related ranges: Love to Love · Dorcel · Manwan

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Specifications

Country of OriginChina
GTIN / UPC3700436017265
Body SafeNot Body Safe
MaterialMetal

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