Sex & Mischief Shadow Day Collar

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Sex & Mischief Shadow Day Collar
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A secret shared between two is a bond that lingers long after the lights go out. The Shadow Day Collar from Sex & Mischief serves as a quiet, tactile reminder of a connection that requires no outward explanation.

How to use it — and who it’s for

How to use it. Agree on a safeword first and keep a quick-release within reach. Never restrain the neck, watch circulation and breathing, and never leave a restrained partner alone. Start light and build trust before anything more.

Is it right for you? For couples curious about light power play, any pairing. Padded, adjustable, quick-release gear is the beginner’s friend.

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About this material — Metal

A smooth, weighty, non-porous metal, responsive to temperature and compatible with any lube.

Care. Wash with soap and water.

Good to know. Some metal alloys and findings can contain nickel; if you have a nickel allergy, check the product details.

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Sex & Mischief Shadow Day Collar
$19.99

Sex & Mischief Shadow Day Collar

A secret shared between two is a bond that lingers long after the lights go out. The Shadow Day Collar from Sex & Mischief serves as a quiet, tactile reminder of a connection that requires no outward explanation. It is a piece of understated bondage, designed for those who find beauty in the subtle. While it presents as a sleek, sophisticated accessory to the casual observer, its true purpose is felt against the skin-a constant, grounding presence that signals belonging and shared intimacy. This is control that remains close to the heart, seen by very few and understood only by the one who holds the other’s leash.

Key Features

  • Crafted with a high-quality Polyurethane (PU) exterior for a sleek, matte look
  • Soft interior lining designed for comfort during extended wear
  • Durable Iron hardware providing a weighted, substantial feel
  • Polished silver-toned metalwork for a striking, restrained contrast
  • Central O-ring and chain centerpiece for easy attachment to leads or restraints
  • Black aesthetic that seamlessly blends with everyday fashion
  • Carefully constructed with precision components

Wearing a collar for long periods requires a focus on both comfort and skin integrity. Because this piece features a soft interior lining, it is designed to sit gently against the neck, minimizing friction. When incorporating accessories into your daily routine, it is wise to keep an eye on the skin beneath the material. Just as certain cosmetic finishes use antioxidants like Vitamin E to protect and stabilize the skin’s natural barrier, you should ensure your skin remains hydrated and healthy. If you notice any redness or irritation from the pressure of the collar, take a break and allow the area to breathe. Maintaining a clean, moisturized neck can help prevent the skin from becoming sensitive to the contact of the PU material.

Proper maintenance of your Sex & Mischief hardware is essential for longevity. The iron components and polished silver hardware are robust, but they are not invincible. To prevent oxidation or dulling of the metal, wipe the collar clean with a soft, dry cloth after each use. Avoid exposing the collar to extreme temperature fluctuations or harsh chemicals, as sudden shifts in environment can affect the flexibility of the synthetic materials. If you use oils or lotions near the collar, ensure they are fully absorbed into your skin before putting the piece on; excess residue can accumulate on the hardware or the PU surface, potentially altering the texture or luster of the metal over time.

Whether you are using the O-ring to attach a leash for a controlled walk or simply wearing it as a symbol of devotion, the Shadow Day Collar is a versatile staple for any collection. Bring this silent statement of intimacy home by browsing our latest arrivals at Phareros.com.

Weight0.180000 lbs
Dimensions8.5 × 1 × 6 in
Rechargeable

MaterialMetal

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FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions

What materials make up the Shadow Day Collar?

The collar is crafted with a high-quality Polyurethane (PU) exterior and durable Iron hardware, featuring a soft interior lining for comfort.

How should I clean and maintain the collar?

To prevent oxidation or dulling, wipe the collar clean with a soft, dry cloth after each use. Avoid exposing the collar to harsh chemicals or extreme temperature fluctuations.

What should I watch out for when wearing it for long periods?

Because it features a soft interior lining, it is designed to sit gently against the neck, but if you notice any redness or irritation, take a break and allow the area to breathe.

Can I use lotions or oils near the collar?

If you use oils or lotions near the collar, ensure they are fully absorbed into your skin before putting the piece on, as excess residue can accumulate on the hardware or the PU surface.

Brand

Sex & Mischief

Sex & Mischief is Sportsheets' beginner line, launched in 2011 — blindfolds, cuffs, ties and intro kits with packaging designed not to intimidate. It's the on-ramp product for people new to bondage.

Worth knowing before you buy: the intro kits are genuinely intro-level; if you already own restraints you'll outgrow them quickly. The satin ties and blindfolds are fabric, so they're washable, while the cuffs are faux leather and should only be wiped.

Ranges we carry: Sportsheets · Saffron · Pivot · Edge · Cougar

Sportsheets

Sportsheets is an independent, family-run company in Huntington Beach, California, founded in 1993 on one good idea: Tom Stewart saw a Velcro-wall stunt on Letterman and built a bed restraint system around it. The company has been run by his sister Julie Stewart since 1999.

Worth knowing before you buy: most of what Sportsheets makes is fabric, strap and hardware rather than body-insertable silicone, so the usual porous-versus-silicone question mostly doesn't apply. What matters instead is fit and adjustability — check strap ranges before buying restraints.

Ranges we carry: Sex & Mischief · Saffron · Pivot · Edge · Cougar

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Country of OriginChina
PackagingBag
GTIN / UPC646709103033
Body SafeNot Body Safe
MaterialMetal
RechargeableNo

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