Sex & Mischief Lace Spreader Bar

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Sex & Mischief Lace Spreader Bar
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The delicate interplay of light and shadow finds its perfect partner in this stunning piece of bondage artistry. At first glance, you might see only the exquisite black lace-et-ched design that wraps around the metal frame, but beneath that…

How to use it — and who it’s for

How to use it. Agree on a safeword first and keep a quick-release within reach. Never restrain the neck, watch circulation and breathing, and never leave a restrained partner alone. Start light and build trust before anything more.

Is it right for you? For couples curious about light power play, any pairing. Padded, adjustable, quick-release gear is the beginner’s friend.

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About this material — Metal

A smooth, weighty, non-porous metal, responsive to temperature and compatible with any lube.

Care. Wash with soap and water.

Good to know. Some metal alloys and findings can contain nickel; if you have a nickel allergy, check the product details.

General material information — always check the product details and label. Full Metal guide →

Sex & Mischief Lace Spreader Bar by Sex & Mischief product image
Sex & Mischief Lace Spreader Bar
$44.99

Sex & Mischief Lace Spreader Bar

The delicate interplay of light and shadow finds its perfect partner in this stunning piece of bondage artistry. At first glance, you might see only the exquisite black lace-et-ched design that wraps around the metal frame, but beneath that sophisticated exterior lies a tool designed for profound physical connection. Sex & Mischief has mastered the art of blending high-end aesthetics with functional restraint, creating a piece that feels as much like a decorative accessory as it does a centerpiece for your most intense sessions. This spreader bar transforms the act of bondage into an elegant ritual, allowing you to frame your partner in positions that are as visually captivating as they are erotically charged.

Key Features

  • Elegant black lace-etched design for a sophisticated, seductive aesthetic
  • 22 inch (58 cm) length provides ample space for versatile positioning
  • Durable construction featuring 85% Aluminum Alloy and 13% Steel
  • Integrated gate clips on each end for quick, secure, and effortless connections
  • Smooth finish utilizing 2% PE Plastic for added comfort and texture
  • Sleek black clasps designed for seamless integration with existing gear

When incorporating a spreader bar into your repertoire, versatility is your greatest asset. This 22-inch bar is particularly effective when used on the ankles to maintain a spread-eagle position, providing a sense of vulnerability and openness that can heighten sensory perception. It can also be utilized to facilitate bent-over positions, limiting movement and focusing all attention on the sensations being delivered. If you are experimenting with more advanced setups at home, remember that stability is paramount; always ensure your partner is well-supported to prevent accidental slips or shifts in weight. While professional dungeons offer complex suspension systems, a sturdy bar like this allows for beautiful, controlled restraint right in the comfort of your own bedroom.

Safety and physical well-being should always guide your play. While the sensation of being spread wide is a classic staple of kink, avoid keeping limbs extended at extreme angles for prolonged periods to prevent muscle strain or cramping. Always communicate frequently with your partner, checking in on their comfort levels as the intensity builds. Regarding care, the combination of aluminum alloy and steel makes this bar remarkably durable, but it is wise to wipe down the metal and lace-etched surfaces after each use. Keeping the gear clean ensures that the intricate detailing remains pristine for years of mischief. Pair this bar with high-quality cuffs or chains to create a cohesive set that feels as premium as it looks.

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Weight0.360000 lbs
Dimensions2.5 × 1.25 × 29 in
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MaterialMetal

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FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions

What materials are used to construct the spreader bar?

This piece features durable construction utilizing 85% Aluminum Alloy and 13% Steel, with a smooth finish incorporating 2% PE Plastic.

How should I care for this spreader bar after use?

Because the combination of aluminum alloy and steel makes it remarkably durable, wipe down the metal and lace-etched surfaces after each use to keep the intricate detailing pristine.

What are some safe ways to use this spreader bar?

It is particularly effective when used on the ankles to maintain a spread-eagle position, or it can be utilized to facilitate bent-over positions for controlled restraint in your bedroom.

Does this bar come with easy connections?

Yes, it features integrated gate clips on each end, which allow for quick, secure, and effortless connections when pairing it with other gear.

What other items pair well with this product?

Many customers find that the Sex & Mischief Lace Spreader Bar pairs wonderfully with items from our Unique Unusual and Womens categories to create a complete experience.

Brand

Sex & Mischief

Sex & Mischief is Sportsheets' beginner line, launched in 2011 — blindfolds, cuffs, ties and intro kits with packaging designed not to intimidate. It's the on-ramp product for people new to bondage.

Worth knowing before you buy: the intro kits are genuinely intro-level; if you already own restraints you'll outgrow them quickly. The satin ties and blindfolds are fabric, so they're washable, while the cuffs are faux leather and should only be wiped.

Ranges we carry: Sportsheets · Saffron · Pivot · Edge · Cougar

Sportsheets

Sportsheets is an independent, family-run company in Huntington Beach, California, founded in 1993 on one good idea: Tom Stewart saw a Velcro-wall stunt on Letterman and built a bed restraint system around it. The company has been run by his sister Julie Stewart since 1999.

Worth knowing before you buy: most of what Sportsheets makes is fabric, strap and hardware rather than body-insertable silicone, so the usual porous-versus-silicone question mostly doesn't apply. What matters instead is fit and adjustability — check strap ranges before buying restraints.

Ranges we carry: Sex & Mischief · Saffron · Pivot · Edge · Cougar

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Specifications

Country of OriginChina
PackagingCard
GTIN / UPC646709101022
Body SafeBody Safe
MaterialMetal

22 inch (58 cm) Gate clips on each end for quick connection Materials: 85% Aluminum Alloy, 13% Steel, 2% PE Plastic

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