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First Time Softee Lover

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A soft, translucent sleeve and a sleek, curvaceous silhouette make the First Time Softee Lover a delightful companion for those exploring new sensations. Designed for those seeking a gentle yet intense introduction to vibration, this beautifully contoured stimulator provides a tactilely pleasing experience that feels as good as it looks. Whether exploring your own erogenous zones or adding excitement to your intimate routine, this compact companion delivers consistent, rhythmic pleasure.

Key Features

  • Smooth, Removable Sleeve: Soft, translucent TPE sleeve for a gentle, skin-like touch with easy maintenance.
  • Multi-Speed Vibrations: Easily adjust intensity by twisting the end cap to find your perfect rhythm.
  • Waterproof Design: Splash-proof construction allows for use in the bath or shower.
  • Premium Materials: Durable ABS plastic core with phthalate-free TPE sleeve for a safer, high-quality experience.
  • Compact & Discreet: Perfectly sized for targeted massage, travel, and discreet storage.
  • Simple Power Source: Operates on 2 AAA batteries (not included) for cordless, effortless use.

◯ Porous material — clean thoroughly and use a condom to share. Care & material guide →

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First Time Softee Lover
$19.99 Original price was: $19.99.$13.99Current price is: $13.99.
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How to use it — and who it’s for

How to use it. Start on the lowest setting and explore — glide it slowly, find the spots and pressure you like, and build the intensity from there. A little water-based lube makes every sensation smoother.

Is it right for you? Beginner-friendly at any pace. Begin gentle; you set the intensity entirely.

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About this material — Thermoplastic Elastomer (TPE)

TPE is a soft, stretchy, skin-like blend prized for a lifelike feel. It’s more porous than silicone, so thorough cleaning matters and many people use a condom when sharing.

Care. Clean well before and after use and dry fully. Use a water-based lube.

General material information — always check the product details and label. Full Thermoplastic Elastomer (TPE) guide →

First Time Softee Lover – Pink by First Time product image
First Time Softee Lover
$19.99 Original price was: $19.99.$13.99Current price is: $13.99.

A soft, translucent sleeve and a sleek, curvaceous silhouette make the First Time Softee Lover a delightful companion for those exploring new sensations. Designed for those seeking a gentle yet intense introduction to vibration, this beautifully contoured stimulator provides a tactilely pleasing experience that feels as good as it looks. Whether exploring your own erogenous zones or adding excitement to your intimate routine, this compact companion delivers consistent, rhythmic pleasure.

Key Features

  • Smooth, Removable Sleeve: Soft, translucent TPE sleeve for a gentle, skin-like touch with easy maintenance.
  • Multi-Speed Vibrations: Easily adjust intensity by twisting the end cap to find your perfect rhythm.
  • Waterproof Design: Splash-proof construction allows for use in the bath or shower.
  • Premium Materials: Durable ABS plastic core with phthalate-free TPE sleeve for a safer, high-quality experience.
  • Compact & Discreet: Perfectly sized for targeted massage, travel, and discreet storage.
  • Simple Power Source: Operates on 2 AAA batteries (not included) for cordless, effortless use.

The magic lies in dual-layered construction: the hard ABS plastic interior provides structural integrity and steady motor support, while the soft, removable TPE sleeve offers a velvety, flexible texture ideal for sensitive skin. Because TPE is a high-quality elastomer free from phthalates, it’s a wonderful alternative to older, less-safe materials—offering both comfort and peace of mind.

For optimal comfort and longevity, use a generous amount of water-based lubricant to enhance the smooth gliding sensation and protect the integrity of the TPE. Since the sleeve is removable and porous, wash it thoroughly after every use with warm, soapy water or a dedicated toy cleaner. The ABS plastic body wipes clean easily. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight to preserve material integrity. Whether for external stimulation or gentle internal massage, the lightweight design makes it easy to explore every erogenous zone with confidence and care.

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Colors: Pink, Purple

Weight0.23 lbs
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Pink, Purple

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Thermoplastic Elastomer (TPE)

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Vibrating

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AAA

FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions

Is the Softee Lover safe for sensitive skin?

Yes. The soft TPE sleeve is phthalate-free and made from a high-quality elastomer, making it a much safer alternative to traditional vinyl or "jelly" toys that may contain harmful chemical softeners. Always use a water-based lubricant to further protect your skin and enhance comfort.

How do I clean and maintain the Softee Lover?

The removable TPE sleeve should be washed with warm, soapy water or a dedicated toy cleaner after every use. The ABS plastic body can be wiped down with a damp cloth. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight to preserve material integrity.

Can I use the Softee Lover in water?

Yes. The device features a splash-proof, waterproof design, making it a delightful companion for bath or shower use. Always ensure batteries are secure before water play, and allow it to dry completely before storing.

What type of batteries does it use, and how long do they last?

The Softee Lover operates on 2 AAA batteries (not included). Battery life depends on usage intensity and frequency—typically several weeks to months of regular use.

Brand

First Time

First Time Brand Overview First Time by CalExotics : Launched as a sub-brand of the renowned CalExotics, First Time is dedicated to those embarking on their journey into the realm of intimate pleasure. With a mission to make the initial exploration of adult products both welcoming and educational, First Time was created to provide a gentle, user-friendly introduction to sex toys and related accessories. This brand encapsulates CalExotics' commitment to quality, education, and inclusivity, focusing on first-time users or those looking to rekindle their curiosity. Product Range and Innovation - User-Friendly Design: The First Time collection includes vibrators, massagers, and novelty items designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind. Features like intuitive controls, soft silicone materials, and gentle vibrations ensure that users feel comfortable and confident. - Educational Elements: Each product comes with guides or instructional materials to help users understand how to use them effectively, promoting a learning experience alongside pleasure.- Innovative Features: Despite being aimed at beginners, First Time incorporates modern technology like USB rechargeable batteries, waterproof designs, and whisper-quiet operation, ensuring a contemporary experience. Market Strategy and Customer Engagement - Educational Outreach: First Time engages customers through educational content, including blog posts, tutorials, and live Q&A sessions with sex educators, aiming to destigmatize adult product use.- Community Building: Utilizing social media and forums, First Time fosters a community where users can share experiences, tips, and support each other, enhancing customer loyalty and engagement.- Accessibility: Pricing strategies are designed to be accessible, making it easier for newcomers to invest in quality products without a significant financial commitment. Packaging and Presentation - Discreet and Inviting: Packaging uses a minimalist, elegant design with soothing colors to convey a sense of luxury and discretion. The packaging is eco-friendly, aligning with modern consumer values.- Educational Packaging: The packaging itself educates, with diagrams or usage instructions printed on the box, ensuring that even before opening, users feel informed and at ease. Retail Support - Training and Support: Retailers are provided with comprehensive training on the First Time range, ensuring staff can guide customers effectively. This includes product knowledge, customer service training, and promotional materials.- Display and Merchandising: First Time offers display units that are both visually appealing and educational, encouraging interaction and exploration in-store. Future Prospects and Brand Expansion - Expansion into New Markets: Plans include expanding into markets where sex education is burgeoning, capitalizing on the growing acceptance and curiosity about adult products.- Product Line Expansion: Future products might include more diverse options like couples' kits, educational board games, and items tailored for different sexual orientations and gender identities.- Sustainability Focus: There is an ongoing commitment to sustainability, with plans to introduce fully biodegradable products and reduce plastic usage across the line.- Collaborative Efforts: First Time aims to collaborate with sex therapists, educators, and influencers to further legitimize and normalize the use of adult products as tools for personal exploration and relationship enhancement. First Time by CalExotics stands as a beacon for those taking their first steps into sexual wellness, offering not just products but a holistic approach to intimacy, education, and self-discovery. Explore with confidence and embrace your curiosity with First Time.

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Specifications

Body SafeNot Body Safe
MaterialThermoplastic Elastomer (TPE)

Color: Pink Material Type: Thermoplastic Elastomer Power Source: 2AAA (Not Included) Features: Phthalate Free,Waterproof,Vibrates Warranty: 1 Year Warranty Measurements: 5in x 1.25in / 12.75cm x 3.25cm (Vibrator) Weight: Bulk:2.4(oz) / 0.07(kg) | Package:12.2(oz) / 0.35(kg) Package: 1.5 x 3.75 x 8.5(in) / 3.75 x 9.5 x 21.5(cm)

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