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A soft, translucent sleeve and a sleek, curvaceous silhouette make the First Time Softee Lover a delightful companion for those exploring new sensations.

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CalExotics First Time

How to use it — and who it’s for

How to use it. Start on the lowest setting and explore — glide it slowly, find the spots and pressure you like, and build the intensity from there. A little water-based lube makes every sensation smoother.

Is it right for you? Beginner-friendly at any pace. Begin gentle; you set the intensity entirely.

About this material — Thermoplastic Elastomer (TPE)

TPE is a soft, stretchy, skin-like blend prized for a lifelike feel. It’s more porous than silicone, so thorough cleaning matters and many people use a condom when sharing.

Care. Clean well before and after use and dry fully. Use a water-based lube.

General material information — always check the product details and label. Full Thermoplastic Elastomer (TPE) guide →

A soft, translucent sleeve and a sleek, curvaceous silhouette make the First Time Softee Lover a delightful companion for those exploring new sensations. Designed for those seeking a gentle yet intense introduction to vibration, this beautifully contoured stimulator provides a tactilely pleasing experience that feels as good as it looks. Whether exploring your own erogenous zones or adding excitement to your intimate routine, this compact companion delivers consistent, rhythmic pleasure.

Key Features

Smooth, Removable Sleeve: Soft, translucent TPE sleeve for a gentle, skin-like touch with easy maintenance.
Multi-Speed Vibrations: Easily adjust intensity by twisting the end cap to find your perfect rhythm.
Waterproof Design: Splash-proof construction allows for use in the bath or shower.
Premium Materials: Durable ABS plastic core with phthalate-free TPE sleeve for a safer, high-quality experience.
Compact & Discreet: Perfectly sized for targeted massage, travel, and discreet storage.
Simple Power Source: Operates on 2 AAA batteries (not included) for cordless, effortless use.

The magic lies in dual-layered construction: the hard ABS plastic interior provides structural integrity and steady motor support, while the soft, removable TPE sleeve offers a velvety, flexible texture ideal for sensitive skin. Because TPE is a high-quality elastomer free from phthalates, it’s a wonderful alternative to older, less-safe materials—offering both comfort and peace of mind.

For optimal comfort and longevity, use a generous amount of water-based lubricant to enhance the smooth gliding sensation and protect the integrity of the TPE. Since the sleeve is removable and porous, wash it thoroughly after every use with warm, soapy water or a dedicated toy cleaner. The ABS plastic body wipes clean easily. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight to preserve material integrity. Whether for external stimulation or gentle internal massage, the lightweight design makes it easy to explore every erogenous zone with confidence and care.

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Colors: Pink, Purple

Weight	0.23 lbs
Color: No selection	Pink, Purple
Material: No selection	Thermoplastic Elastomer (TPE)
Use / Function: No selection	Vibrating
Battery Type: No selection	AAA

FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions

Is the Softee Lover safe for sensitive skin?

Yes. The soft TPE sleeve is phthalate-free and made from a high-quality elastomer, making it a much safer alternative to traditional vinyl or "jelly" toys that may contain harmful chemical softeners. Always use a water-based lubricant to further protect your skin and enhance comfort.

How do I clean and maintain the Softee Lover?

The removable TPE sleeve should be washed with warm, soapy water or a dedicated toy cleaner after every use. The ABS plastic body can be wiped down with a damp cloth. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight to preserve material integrity.

Can I use the Softee Lover in water?

Yes. The device features a splash-proof, waterproof design, making it a delightful companion for bath or shower use. Always ensure batteries are secure before water play, and allow it to dry completely before storing.

What type of batteries does it use, and how long do they last?

The Softee Lover operates on 2 AAA batteries (not included). Battery life depends on usage intensity and frequency—typically several weeks to months of regular use.

Brand

First Time

First Time is a range from CalExotics covering vibrators, anal products, classic & standard.

Worth knowing before you buy: most of what we carry from this range is silicone, which is the material worth paying for — it's non-porous, so it can be washed with soap and water, boiled or wiped with alcohol, and it will outlast porous alternatives. Check the material on the individual listing, because ranges rarely run to one material throughout.

Related ranges: Boundless · Cheap Thrills · Rings! · Optimum Series

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Specifications

Body Safe	Not Body Safe
Material	Thermoplastic Elastomer (TPE)

Color: Pink Material Type: Thermoplastic Elastomer Power Source: 2AAA (Not Included) Features: Phthalate Free,Waterproof,Vibrates Warranty: 1 Year Warranty Measurements: 5in x 1.25in / 12.75cm x 3.25cm (Vibrator) Weight: Bulk:2.4(oz) / 0.07(kg) | Package:12.2(oz) / 0.35(kg) Package: 1.5 x 3.75 x 8.5(in) / 3.75 x 9.5 x 21.5(cm)

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