A complete, well-fitted first strap-on — harness, dong and glide, chosen to work together.
A strap-on shouldn’t come with a spreadsheet. We assembled the whole thing so it just works together: an adjustable harness that fits comfortably, a body-safe dong sized to start with, and a glide that keeps everything easy. Whoever’s wearing it, however you’re paired — this is the confident place to begin.
One click adds our top pick from each part of the kit — swap any of them below.
What’s in the Strap-On Starter Kit
A matched set
Harness and dong chosen to fit together out of the box. Browse all Harness with Dongs/Dildo Set →
Body Extensions Be Naughty Vibrating 4 Piece Strap On Set$263.96Add to cart- ROMP Piccolo 3 Color 5.5″ Dildo Pegging Kit – Blue$49.99Add to cart
Find your harness
Adjustable and beginner-friendly, so it stays put. Browse all Strap Ons →
- Vac-U-Lock Platinum Edition Accessories Supreme Harness – Black$82.24Add to cart
- Evolved 2 Become 1 Strapless Strap On – Purple$159.98Add to cart
Start-here sizes
Body-safe silicone — begin smaller, size up later. Browse all Dongs/Dildos for Harnesses →
- Pretty Love Kelpie Squirting Strapless Strap On – Fuchsia Original price was: $92.06.$64.44Current price is: $64.44.Add to cart
- ROMP Piccolo 3 Color Dildo – Blue$29.99Add to cart
The right glide
Keeps silicone happy and everything smooth. Browse all Water Based →
- Loadz Jizz Water-based Lube – 8 oz Bottle Unscented Original price was: $23.50.$16.45Current price is: $16.45.Add to cart
- Master Series Jizz Scented Lube – 8.5 oz Original price was: $29.12.$20.38Current price is: $20.38.Add to cart
Aftercare
Clean before and after every use. Browse all Toy Cleaner →
- Wicked Sensual Care Cleene Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner – 4 oz Original price was: $11.94.$8.36Current price is: $8.36.Add to cart
How to choose yours
Harness style — a classic adjustable strap fits most bodies and is the easiest first choice; a snug brief-style feels more secure for active play. Dong size — start smaller than you think; you can always size up once you know what you love. Every dong here is body-safe silicone. New to this? Smaller + classic harness is the friendliest start.
Who it’s for
For anyone bringing a strap-on into the picture — solo, or with a partner, whoever’s doing the wearing. No experience required, no assumptions made. If you’ve been curious, this is the uncomplicated way in.
Play it safe
- Adjust the harness snug but comfortable — check it stays put before you start.
- Use water-based lube with silicone dongs (silicone lube can degrade silicone).
- Body-safe materials only. Clean before and after, and never share without cleaning or a fresh condom.
Every order ships in plain, unbranded packaging with a discreet sender name — and your billing statement stays just as private. What’s in the box is nobody’s business but yours.
Questions, answered
Do I need any experience?
None. The harness is adjustable and beginner-friendly, the dong is a start-here size, and everything is matched to work together out of the box. Go slow and use plenty of lube.
Who is this for?
Anyone bringing a strap-on into play — solo or with a partner, whoever’s wearing it. It’s built to be adaptable, not to assume anything about you.
What size should I choose?
Start smaller than you think you want. It’s more comfortable to begin with, and you can always size up once you know what feels good.